Choose Between Addictive Love and Love That Is All !
Let me tell the sad and frustrating situation I find myself everyday ! Wonderful and so called normal people come to me because they are in the most miserable of situations where even taking their lives seems the only or accepted situation ! Yes ! These feelings and thoughts can really drive anyone crazy ! The emotional state or feelings are so over powering that we are caught like prisoners in their grip ! People who are caught in this very serious addictive love are in a very unstable place . They are not in any normal position to judge or decide what is right and wrong ! They are trapped in the grey area where the thin line between normal and abnormal has faded .
I just saw a client of this evening . A young , smart 27 year old man . As usual , he came completely devastated and a broken person . He was brought by kind people who saw how miserable has state was.
He actually had attempted suicide , but , thank Whatever , it was not successful .
As I allowed him to pour out his story , it was the same familiar story that I have been hearing for over 40 years ! It does not matter which part of the world I go to ! I have heard these stories in India , New Zealand , Australia and Malaysia . I know from my readings and colleagues that it is the same all over the planet . All Humans share the same emotional code ! It does not matter what colour your skin is , it does not matter what culture , religion , race or nationality you are ! We all have the same nature .
In addictive love we are just caught and trapped within the grip of the love feeling . We constantly need to get our daily quota or fix to keep us going or we start to get the withdrawal symptoms !
Mentally , physically and emotionally we are just not in this present moment ! Just read, The Power of Now by Eckart Tolle and you will get a clear picture of how we get trapped in this vicious cycle of the past and the future ! The present disappears ! All of the past issues are our regrets and depressions! The future is always full of anxiety and worries ! The only place to be is missing !
Addictive love is continuously expecting , demanding and beyond reason or logic ! It just wants it's way like a small child throwing tantrums !
Only when you realise or become aware that there is actually another better and enjoyable way of loving and being in that state , that you start to understand the wonderful magic of love .
Love is the very core nature of our beingness . It is all that we are ! However , we have wrapped ourselves in layers of belief systems , traditions and dogmas , that we are unable to see how wonderful is our true nature !
Love is the only mysterious energy that can keep expanding endlessly ! We enjoy it and also keep giving all around the same or even more joy ! That love is spoken by all great Masters who understood who or what we are ! Love does not need to be begged , it needs to be expressed fully and joyfully . That love is liberating and free .
Now , you have to seriously make a choice if you want to create heaven on Earth or keep trapped in the dark side of human nature .
I can keep writing endlessly ! Look around at the amount of wonderful books written by such loving and wonderful people . Just get up and walk towards the beautiful highway where you will experience the never ending bliss of true love !
Till we meet again . Thank you for your patience .
Dr Dhali /Amar.
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