Saturday, March 8, 2014

Social Media Relationships !

Social Media Relationships !

Social Media relationships are very new to me .
I decided to become active on the social media about 3 months ago . I just felt that I wanted to share and learn from other across the planet. I also felt that with my years of studying about human behaviour , it will be a good place to see how we humans are really like everywhere. I had arrived at my own conclusions about humans across all religions , cultures and races that we are basically the same ! It does not matter what colour of skin we have . It also does not matter what our external status is really ! 
Social standing , status , wealth , power and all other trappings that we have or surround ourselves with has very little bearings to our core basic human nature . Security , fear , pride , envy , anger , 
jealousy and most other feelings and emotions remain the same across all humans . Love matters!
With this awareness and understanding , I wanted to expand my experience . I also saw and had experiences that relationships as relatives , close friends , and others was the same . Even between
parents and children there can be misunderstandings. Between brothers and sisters , between cousins and aunties or uncles .
So , in reality it does not matter who or what you are ! We all have experiences of being misunderstood or getting into arguments or fights with our loved ones . 
How or why does that happen ? 
My simple and basic understanding is that each of us is an individual that lives with other individuals !
As individuals we form a social system to live together or work together or even worship together !
Then we all get labelled as sons ,daughters , mothers ,fathers , uncles , managers , priest , monk , nun , kings and queens and the list goes on and on ...!
These are just labels but most people identify with these labels and make their reality around these labels !
Just to give you an example, a mother is just not a mother ! She is some ones daughter , sister , cousin , friend , auntie and the list goes on . Basically , she is just a women with all the labels thrown at her .
Her desires , fears , feelings and other thoughts and feelings are just like any human !
Coming



 to the social media , it is the same story !!
We are all humans from all corners of this planet wanting to interact with each other for varies reasons . Mostly to connect and share !
Social media is a platform where we build or create a social group in which we can exchange our needs , desires , passions , likes and other areas of interest .
We build a network of like minded people with common interest .
Call it whatever name you like , it is at the end , simple people wanting to connect and share their feelings and thoughts in a safe environment .
We all sit at our laptops or PCs daily to share and exchange feelings , thoughts and more with like minded humans . The terms and conditions are simple . Earn respect and give respect ! Love and be loved ! We want to have real people , honest ,sincere and authentic people !
We are tired of playing games !
I came to the social media with simple respect , honesty to share whatever I
can . Take it or leave it , nothing personal . I have no need or desire to hurt anyone and get hurt . You like my style , thoughts or whatever , that is it . Otherwise just let go and go look for others that you may find to your taste .
That is it . Simple and share or care without getting stressed and complicated .
That is my simple reason to be on the social media . To build relationships with love and respect .
I have lived long enough and need no reason to play any games .
That is my simple reason to be on the social media .
Will end now . Till we meet again .
Take care, Love .
Amar,

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