How I Relate to Everything Is My Choice !

How I Relate to Everything Is My Choice !

I am going to share a small story how we are all capable of creating our relationships with everything

and everybody ! The way is to decide that you want or have come to a decision on whatever values , beliefs , thoughts and feelings you have . It is you who has to sit and come to that way at being in the world . 

I will give you my personal simple examples :

1. Somehow I had a soft corner for ants . Even to the extent of leaving some sugar out for them ! I just enjoyed watching them come and carry those sugar grains away .  If there were ants in the bathroom , I will try to get them away or if I started my shower , I actually will make the extra effort to rescue them from drowning ! I know it may sound crazy or out right funny ! I enjoyed and really felt good . I have watched ants standing on their two hind legs and dry themselves before walking to their family or their task ! These little creatures are so amazing and social insects ! 

However , I had a different relationship with cockroaches . I use to go after them and spray all those nasty toxic chemicals .I saw the poor cockroaches getting paralysed and dying . It was hurting to see them die .

I  Decided to also feel and love the cockroaches ! I just did some inner work , where I realised that it is the same life as mine , just in another form ! I quietly asked to be forgiven for my past crimes against them ! Yes , you are allowed to laugh ! 

Than I started the same feelings towards cockroaches whenever I saw them ! I just wished them to go or gentle guided them away . 

After a few days , I actually noticed that very few roaches came to trouble me !

Now , an amazing thing happened ! One night as I came to my place and switched on the light , there was a big cockroach in my kitchen . It was not running away ! I was quite surprised as they always or usually ran whenever the lights are on . I let it be and went inside my sitting room and sat on my sofa.

Then I saw the cockroach crawl under the door and and was coming towards me !! That was really weird ! I started to wonder was was happening here . The cockroach actually came to me and touched my feet with its feelers . I just sat there and watched ! After that It went away out of the door !!

Now , I was just shocked and amazed . That was no ordinary action ! The cockroach actually connected with me without any fear whatsoever ! It felt safe and became friendly .

That day taught me a wonderful lesson that you can relate to anything and it will relate back to you in the same way !

Love is love across the Universe ! Let it be a plant , animal , bird or a fish ! 

This small story is just a point that I am making , that Life is life and if we can become aware or understand that , than wonderful and amazing experiences can take place !

Just bring love into your life and see the miracle that happens .

Will end this short blog there , but , please ponder !

Till we meet again , take care . Love.

Amar.