Relationships are Forever !

Relationships are Forever !

Let me tell you why I say that relationships are forever ! Now , if we go into such issues if they were good or bad or close or far , that is just another aspect of relationships . you are still relating to them in which ever way you want to call it . They just become a part of us !

I want to start with my personal story . 

I lost my father at a rather early age . He was just 49 years and I was 25 years . If you had read my early blogs , you will understand how I came to be with my father as he was slowly slipping away from us . It was a great maturing process and that has made me who I am today ! Every major event shape us and molds us . 

Nearly 41 years have gone since I saw or touched the physical body of my loving father ! That is a long time in any sense . I am going to be 66 years this year ! Older than my father ! My father being a father never experienced being 66 years ! He died so much younger . I , sitting here am attempting to think or feel what does it mean ?! I can now feel a kind of fatherly  feeling towards my young father !

I know it is a strange thought ! A son feeling a fatherly emotion for his father who passed away so long ago !

Let me share another wonderful secret about us when we really get in touch with our real or authentic self . We start having feelings that become gender neutral !! What I mean , is that sometimes I get motherly feelings towards situations and people ! I have actually watched all kinds of feelings arising within me ! Sounds weird ! Well , that is how I feel and experience life ! 

Coming back to my relationships forever topic . Time or even space has some hold or control on the physicality of we humans , but that is all !

In the non physical plane , we are always united and one ! Never separated ever !

I always feel so close to my father always !!

That feeling has never left me ! 

In the same vein , I may be separated from my loved ones by space , but I am always connected !

I have meet some very old dear friends after a very long time and the feelings were intact ! 

On the other hand , if there are some relationships that did not go well , they too remain with us some where within us always ! 

As we keep thinking and developing this feelings , we will realise that we can go on expanding our feelings far and wide !!

I have come to blogging and the social media Google+ only recently . Yet , I can tell you that I feel really connected to so many people that it gets me thinking what does it mean !!

One feeling that is constant , is that it matters ! 

I may not have met them personally , yet , they have become part of  me !

Not seeing them on google+ or sharing their post , makes me wonder if all is okay with them !

Relationships are not bounded by time and space . So, if that is true , than we are more non physical than we realise or understand !

We are vibrational energy beings that are always vibrating ! 

Will talk about that some other time ,but , sufficient to say , that being aware of that makes us realise how our feelings and thinking can influence each and all of us !

So , honour and respect and cherish the relationships that we are !

We are constantly relating and relationships are always going on !

Thank you for taking time to read . Take care .

Till we meet again .

Amar.